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Say what’s on your mind without being judged, rushed or told to toughen up.
A space just for men to get things off their chest. No judgement, no awkwardness — just an honest chat with Jess, a fresh perspective and maybe a laugh along the way.
Stress at work? Relationship worries? Feeling lonely, burnt out or just not yourself? You don't have to bottle it up or know where to start. Jess offers men a relaxed, one-to-one conversation where you can speak freely and be heard.
Some men find it easier to open up when the conversation feels natural, not clinical. Whether it’s pressure, confidence, relationships or simply needing someone outside your circle to listen, this is your chance to speak honestly, feel heard and look at things from a different angle.
No lectures. No judgement. No need to put on a brave face. Just you, Jess and a conversation on your terms.
Jess brings real-world experience, warmth and a down-to-earth approach to conversations about life, confidence, relationships, mindset and mental wellbeing.
She has built and run businesses, travelled the world, raised a family and spent years connecting with people from all walks of life. With more than one million followers across social media, Jess has seen first-hand how often people are looking for something simple but important: a place to talk, feel heard and be themselves.
The Cheeky Counsellor grew from that idea — a relaxed, informal space for men who may not want a traditional or clinical-feeling conversation, but still value connection, perspective and support.

Currently studying Psychology, with an ongoing focus on human behaviour, relationships, confidence and mental wellbeing.
Qualifications and further study in mental health and counselling.
Member of a Commonwealth advisory board supporting the development of Medicare's mental health check-in service.
Background in business, personal training, finance broking, martial arts, travel and building large online communities.
Say what’s on your mind without being judged, rushed or told to toughen up.
Sometimes a smile and a bit of cheek make the harder stuff easier to say.
Unpack what’s going on and leave with a little more clarity and perspective.
05 / For the blokes
Practical reads on stress, relationships, confidence and the things men don't always say out loud.
A few words people have shared about the Cheeky Counsellor approach and their conversations with Jess.
What an amazing approach to do away with the awkwardness that causes blocks to entering into the process, especially for the blokes out there allowing them to engage on their own terms
The conversation was so enjoyable easy and flowed naturally
it feels like the universe has dropped you out of nowhere for what feels like quite a tricky thing to get help with.
I think you are fulfilling a very unique place out there that men definately need
Whether you need 15 minutes to break the ice or an hour to really talk, there’s a chat for you. Pick your session and book a private, paid conversation with Jess.

Not sure where to start? Break the ice with Jess, see if you click and say what’s on your mind.
Good for: getting started or talking through one thing briefly.
Got something weighing on you? Take half an hour to talk it through without pressure.
Good for: stress, confidence, relationships or feeling stuck.
When there’s a lot to unpack, give yourself a full hour to talk it through at your pace.
Good for: a few connected issues, a life change or a longer check-in.
This website does not provide professional counselling, psychological or medical services.